Friday, May 6, 2011

Sheer Terror, Devastation, Shock, and the Resiliency of My Neighbors

Last Wednesday, we were under Tornado Warnings for 16 hours.  The kids, Joe and I spent the majority of that time in an interior closet with helmets on, watching the news on my smart phone.  The weatherman counting down the minutes until tornado after tornado was at our doorstep.... over and over again.  I was scared.

When Joey phoned from Tuscaloosa, crouched in the bathroom of his dorm at UA, watching a massive storm as it reached for the ground over Bryant-Denny Stadium,  It was almost too much for this mother to handle.

Thankfully, our family is safe.  We are/were blessed.  The windows leaked from the sheer force of the rain and hail, the yard was a mess,  shingles strewn about under the odd tree limb or two...  But we are fine.

My neighbors - not so much.

My vets office is the single structure standing less than a half mile away... the same storm passed within 2 or 3 football fields of the girls' elementary school.  Joe was in line to pick them up after early dismissal - he was rushed inside to huddle with the children while that particular tornado passed by.   When they emerged, they did so to destruction in every direction.

The older kids' high school is about 2 miles from our home.  They have been taking a quaint little "country" road to and from school for nearly 3 years now.  The street was lined with family homes and a small farm.   No more.  There is not a home standing... in fact, you can't even tell what the rubble once was...  the majestic oaks and tall pines that once shaded the homes are all gone... twisted and literally ripped in half by another tornado that stuck mid day.

At the end of that road sat a small church that had stood for more than two centuries.  It was one of the oldest churches in Alabama.  Today, it is rubble - a single pew is all that remains upright in the church.  The steeple in wrapped around a broken utility pole down the road.  I have a hundred pictures of Abby and Lilli in front of the Church as they attended preschool and kindergarten within it's safe and caring walls.  Two of the wonderful teachers that we loved so much lost their homes - but they rejoice in the fact that their families are intact.  I am in awe of these families and their strength.







One of Holly's best friends in now commuting back and forth from Tennessee - till the end of his senior year.  His home is now flat.  It remained upright long enough to protect his family - caving in only after they were all safe from the storm.  We asked him to come stay with us for the last few weeks of school, but he politely declined as he wanted to be there for  his mother - to support her and help with his siblings.  They are a lucky family - in more ways than one!  

I went to UA on Wednesday afternoon to pack Joey up and move him home -  all classes and finals have been cancelled at the University.  I had seen the storm damage photos of Tuscallossa - had seen all the videos on the We@ther Channel... but was unprepared when I drove down 15th Avenue.  Homes, Business, and most importantly, lives that existed one moment - did not exist the next.  


But amid all the destruction and shock and sadness, the citizens of Alabama and those from around the US who have rushed to help - they have come out in full force to start the recovery process.  Where I would stand and not even know where to begin.... folks have stood and directed countless volunteers.  Our community has come so far in a very short week....

 God Bless my neighbors and all of those helping in any way they can.


**** Update****  Our Insurance Agent was just here and believes that our home was "wind wrapped" which means that there was great wind pressure put on our roof in a back and forth motion and all the beams in the attic have been twisted and are now not structurally sound.  She said that is also what caused our windows and front door to leak  -  She is sending engineers to our home as soon as possible to decide what needs to be done.  I so love our home... I hope they will be able to make it all ok again.

Saturday, April 23, 2011

We Will Take Chocolate....

Funny "Fluff" (or should I say Fluffy???) article I read on F@x News' Website:



Here are 10 reasons to buy a chocolate bunny and not a real bunny this Easter:




1. If you decide you don’t like the chocolate bunny, you can buy another brand.

2. Real bunnies chew everything. With a chocolate bunny—you’re the only one doing the chewing.

3. Friends are much less likely to have an allergic reaction to your chocolate bunny.

4. A real bunny is much pricier than a chocolate bunny. In fact you can buy a carton of chocolate bunnies for the cost of one real bunny.

5. When you buy a chocolate bunny you don’t need to buy anything else, unlike a real bunny. Well, maybe just some jellybeans.

6. Real bunnies' eyes can see behind them without turning their heads. A chocolate bunnies’ eyes can be bitten off and eaten.



7. Real bunnies eat and poop at the same time. Sorry, you didn’t really need to know that.

8. Real bunnies can become pregnant again one hour after of giving birth. Fortunately (or unfortunately) chocolate bunnies don’t reproduce.

9. A real bunny doesn’t like it when you trim its toenails. Chocolate bunnies don’t usually mind.

10. You can bite off a chocolate bunny’s ears. Not a good idea with a real bunny… Random Fact:  Apparently 76% of people bite off the ears first….


Friday, April 22, 2011

Her Medical File From China Said....

... that she had the Chicken Pox when she was 2.  As per medical guidance, she had the Varicella Vaccine at 3.5 - shortly after we met.    So why did she go to bed Wednesday night happy and healthy, yet wake up  Thursday morning looking like she had rolled around in a tub of red confetti?  As of last night, we were still trying to cover all the new marks with our good friend, Cal@dryl.    We also made the mad dash to the pharmacy for a few boxes of oatmeal bath powder.  Ben@dryl... no problem... it is a staple in our home!  


These are pink... but not necessarily what Lilli wanted for Easter!  : )  Hopefully today we will see fewer new bumps and we can consider this a somewhat of a mild case....

Joey - my oldest who is going on 20 - had the Chicken Pox twice - the second time around (at age 5), was so bad, he had actual pox on his little eyeballs.  It was quite scary.... but he recovered with no problems.  Hopefully it will be the same for Miss Lilli...

Until then, I guess I need to practice the phase "Stop Scratching".....

Friday, April 15, 2011

Daddy's Golf Partner

 Will she be the next Nancy Lopez?  Beth Daniels?  
We think so... but more importantly, she KNOWS so.










Wednesday, April 13, 2011

A Few Spring Break Pictures







Joe could not leave work this week as his students are preparing for graduation, so we decided to find a little fun in the area... D!sney Live, lots of golf, Chattanooga this weekend and lots of fun in the back yard enjoying the wonderful warm weather.  (Picture quality not that great as they were all taken with my phone... but really, I still remember when phones did nothing by make and receive calls... heck, I remember when phones were stuck to the wall and had rotary dials... so I am impressed!  : )

Saturday, March 26, 2011

Abby's Cousin is Releasing an Album...

Actually - he is all the kids' cousin (or nephew for Joe and I ) but he has a very special place in Abby's  heart... she really thinks, "he is the most awesome cool guitar player in the world... with the most amazing guitar collection EVER!"  (her words exactly)



I agree!

Monday, March 21, 2011

Spring, Sunshine and Sleeveless Shirts - YAY!







So Funny!

Watch this... and make sure you watch the whole thing... down to the last second... hilarious!!!